The card is finally missing. Not seeing it in any of her normal places and did not see it in the trash, but she could have easily put it in her computer bag and tossed it into the trash at work.
Oh well... I did say some really nice things in the card so it's her loss if she tossed it without reading it.
Spending most of my day today doing some packing of my personal items. Just a few weeks left here in the house -- mixed emotions... Will be good to have some space (physical and mental) from her, but so sad that it means breaking our family apart. I hope one day we can be really honest with our kids about what happened here and why I had to move out even though I never wanted to.
Me 48, Her 50 (Same-Sex Couple) 3 Children Together: 9.5 years before BD BD: Week of 10/27/14 ExW started EA w OW 9/2014 ExW married OW 12/2015