Hey Tony.. I, too, am all about the TRUTH. I don't see a problem with you finding out the TRUTH via snooping or whatever you have to do. The problem lies in the fact that all the snooping of her e-mails is keeping YOU from getting a LIFE. I know, been there, done that. I used to monitor my H's e-mail, his credit card activity online, etc. It became almost addictive. I HAD to check out what he was doing everyday via my snooping. Finally, one day, I just got sick and tired of having no life, and told myself to STOP focusing on HIM and to start focusing on ME. I replaced that behavior of snooping with other things for ME...going to the gym, going shopping for new clothes, getting a manicure, going out with my girlfriends, etc. So, in summary, I see no harm in snooping to find out the truth, but there comes a point where the snooping takes over and interferes with Tony getting a life for Tony! So, what have you done lately to make Tony happy???? TC
