GB,
Good to hear from you! I always appreciate your well reasoned take on my sitch.

T0,
Thanks for your perspective yesterday. I tried to pepper it into my approach last night and this morning.

Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15