(((Toots)))...I know how you feel. I agree with what Jim said above and I couldn't really say it any better. It is hard when reality sinks in, but you are a strong, wonderful, independent woman and you are going to be fine. I also agree with what Pink said above about your H will learn the hard way. It is sad, but you MUST take care of yourself and do what is best for YOU. And, like Cadet said, let your L protect you. He is working for you.
My door is ALWAYS open to you, dear Toots. Molly and I love company and would be glad to show you our place and take you on a walk around the neighborhood.
Hang in there!
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
