The end

[mustardseed]

The call from the lawyer was to tell me she received the papers. I am being served. I go in next week to sign and to start discuss the next steps in this nightmare. I didn't tell him I heard from her. But we got into a fight anyway. He made some comments about my work situation that makes me wonder where he is getting his info. I feel like I am going crazy. He told me he told his mother some things I said while we were fighting that he naturally twisted to sound like an attack on her.

Things ended calmly, but I don't trust him. Things feel better but it's probably all an act. Last night I mentioned that I was thinking about dinner and his response was that he'd take care of it. This is always a pattern. I think out loud about dinner he says he'll take care of it. Or I make dinner and he orders in and then no one wants to eat what I made. After he left I realized I should document the conversation so he can't twist it so I texted him so the verbal conversation was noted. His reponse was that I should order pizza. Which I did. I realize now that I need to make note of everything said so that when it gets twisted I won't be confused.