Originally Posted By: Toots
WRT your comments about taking stuff above. I think there's some of the passive aggressive coming through in what you propose. Leaving only your wedding suit and a present she bought you. You wouldn't be leaving those because you "won't be wearing them again." You would be leaving them as a kind of silent protest - a message to her that you are unhappy and will leave just those emotionally charged items for her to see. I think if you want to move your stuff, move it, but move it all if that's the case.

Hope you and your boys have a good weekend OD...:-)


Ha ha. Bang on Toots me dear. I was also thinking of shredding her wedding dress :-)

I did think of taking them to the charity shop, but then passive aggressiveness kicked in.

I'm also considering selling my wedding ring which I took of a few months ago.

And thanks both.

Last edited by Old Dog; 05/16/15 10:52 AM.

M: 57 / EW: 52
T: 21, M: 8
S: 18, S: 15
Bomb: 1 Jun 14
EA Aug 2014 I think
PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner