Old dog seeks new trick 13

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"I think I may remove all of my remaining clothing when I go back to the flat - and that's not home either. All bar my wedding suit and a leather jacket which she bought me on my birthday a couple of years ago. I can't see me wearing either of those again"

Hi OD, I understand what you say in your post about home. I also don't feel I have a home as such right now. Our MH has stopped being my home, and I don't regard my rental flat as home either. I never call it home, just my flat. Now, all of that is a shame - but I am living in a warm, pleasant place with a roof over my head and food in the fridge. That's not such a bad place to be.

WRT your comments about taking stuff above. I think there's some of the passive aggressive coming through in what you propose. Leaving only your wedding suit and a present she bought you. You wouldn't be leaving those because you "won't be wearing them again." You would be leaving them as a kind of silent protest - a message to her that you are unhappy and will leave just those emotionally charged items for her to see. I think if you want to move your stuff, move it, but move it all if that's the case.

Hope you and your boys have a good weekend OD...:-)