(((Toots)))

It's just my view but I really don't think you should mention divorce unless its what you want - you are effectively asking him to pull that trigger.

Concentrate on what you want which is a formal financial agreement (at least I think it is) and ignore the rest.

I also don't think formal separation is a thing over here but I could be mistaken.

I hope you have a good day today despite all this


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress