Hey vge, I’m so glad to hear that the chemo is working! Yay! Keeping you in my thoughts.

I agree on the point that your children need to tell their dad how they feel. I cannot believe your H’s actions though. What an @ss hole! I'm sure that it will come back to haunt him.

I don’t know how old your children are and what the state laws are. Don’t the older once have a say in any of these? Also, if they go to counseling, can their therapist influence what your H can and cannot do? Don’t their feelings count?

vge, hang in there. Stay strong… For you and your children. Sending you lots of love and positive feelings.

M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state