Just to add. Today was my youngest's bday. So H takes our child to OW hm so that H could change since he had just come from work. Our child tells H - please dont have OW or her kids around on my bday. H responds that OW & her family are not bad people. Child reiterates discomfort and states again no OW or her kids. H doesn't listen. H had OW and her kids with my child all day! My child tells me that this bday sucked.
When H dropped off our child back hm - H was driving OW's vehicle with OW and her kids in the car. GRRRR!!!
I was sooo mad that H brings OW to MY house!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SOOOO MAD that my child had spend a birthday that was just supposed to be with dad now H snd OW are "a family"? already? without a final divorce paper???
My child wasn't happy but what do we do. I vented to a friend cuz I really don't know what to do now. Just let it slide? What difference would speaking up make. I'm telling you ....tantrum=he gets what he wants. I want to tell H that it was completely unacceptable what he did to our child. And I can already hear him say that we all need to get over it and just get used to it. GRRRR!
Anyway - feeling frustrated, upset, and lost. Giving this to GOD cuz I don't know what to do with it. It's too much.
Lord help me! Help me to be there for my children. Help me to do and say the right thing. I pray for wisdom and protection.
