I feel so good about having had such a positive influence on this situation. His life and his sons life have now forever changed for the better. Also made me realize that holding on to the resentment towards my husband is a stupid thing. I forgive him for leaving me at the worst time of my life. Both of our lives have now changed for the better. Whatever will be, will be. We will work on our respective issues alone and on our marriage together. I see a bright future ahead of me.
Hi Diana.
I don't think I've checked in on you in a while. I am so sorry!
What a terrific job you did advising your old boyfriend. You should feel good! The story makes me feel good, too, I have goosebumps! You have always come across to me as a caring person and it truly shows by the way you took the time to advise him.
What you wrote about resentment is very true. It's hard to let go of it when someone, especially our spouse, has wronged us. But it's so important for you as it helps you let go of the past and move forward.
*Hugs*
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
