Mirror Mirror on the wall....

[mleigh4]

I have nothing to add compared to Job, UR and AJM. They are so wise with this stuff. I just want to agree, don't look at these discussions/fights with your W as a step back. I think it's part of the process and "working" through the fallout. And I have a feeling there is a whole lot more to come.

I guess what I am saying is to go through these times with the thought process of figuring out and working your way to deciding what you want for YOU. NO decision is needed from you, R or no R. Just work through this stuff until you know. It seems you have some pressure on yourself to know that answer now. Take that pressure off