I think it's safe to say she hasn't checked out. She truly doesn't know if she can get over the the pain I have caused. Almost like I was the unfaithful one, really. Which I did break the promise of the love and marriage, absolutely.
Which is why I am so unsure about how to approach this. All the changes I have made so far have been permanent and positive, and she has recognized them before. Just not sure what to do in this moment of her trying to figure out if she can be with me still.
I haven't specifically offered, more implied. Told her I had been talking to friends about possibly staying with them. Early on I had more of a scorched earth reaction, or maybe less so just that I wasn't going to help or take part of her moving out in any way.
Me 37,W37 D8,D5 T20 years, M13 years BD-5/14 MC starts (continues)-9/14 EA discovered-10/14 Piecing(?)-11/14-5/14 "I just feel 'done'"-5/15 Trial S (I moved)-6/15/15
