25yearsmlc, this is a lot of GAL! I don’t know if I have this much energy as you did. It works for some people, I guess.
And this is always a downer for LBS:
Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc
Btw, I don't think labeling it "MLC" is all that helpful b/c in some cases it means the LBSer sticks around with the misguided notion that MLCers always return to the marriages. But They usually do not return.
Why even give any advice on any DB and 180? Just stick with the GAL and move on activities. I never undertook these posts. They tell you that there is very little chance of R, and the chances of MLCer to return to the M are very slim, but at the same time advice you taking steps to DB and this: “You want him to second guess his lack of commitment to the marriage.” BUT!!! “They usually do not return”!
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state