Thanks to you too BEC... sometimes I swear I'm learning disabled because none of this seemed comprehensible to me. Only recently has it become clearer.

I hated reading this when I first started reading the threads because I was so focused on saving my M. But, we will get through this... with our spouse or not. DBing is about you!

I'm so new to this, so, I'm probably not much help. I'm having such a hard time controlling my own emotional roller coaster, that I haven't stopped to see the sitch for what it is and how I contributed to where I am. I think, from your last post, you can see how you got to where you are.

It's Friday... do something for YOU!


M: 8 years, together 9
M: 41 W: 32
D 4, S 6
ILYBINILWY 2/10/15
2/14/15-2/22/15 Left home
4/5/15 Suspect A, Initiated Sandi's advice from WW thread
4/19/15 W asked for D