Is it worth asking (at therapy) what it was she DID love about me? Or let the therapist plot the course?

I really have no idea what it was she loved about me at this point (yes I am a bit broken right now) so can't work on reinforcing those areas consciously.

Me 37,W37
D8,D5
T20 years, M13 years
BD-5/14
MC starts (continues)-9/14
EA discovered-10/14
Piecing(?)-11/14-5/14
"I just feel 'done'"-5/15
Trial S (I moved)-6/15/15