You know a weird thought I had: this is not a serious thought but kind of a funny one.
Reading through the forums and different stories it feels like my W is DBing me in a way: I know that isn't the case.
But she detached. She GAL. She doesn't pursue. And it makes me want her.
Anyone else ever notice that?
I know she isn't actually DBing me: but it's kind of interesting.
I started to realize this too recently. For the past few years, I was the one emotionally withdrawn. Now it seems like she is DBing me and all I do is want her more. The irony is not lost on me. Keep up the faith. I'm only 3 months into this and have made too many mistakes to count. I still have hope for my M and have hope for your M. I think you're doing very well, all things considered. Detaching is really the hardest part and everyone on here understands and has been there. At first, even GALing was hard, but I'm finding it's getting a lot easier now that I understand you can GAL anywhere at any time. Never realized what a grump I was at work. Then I just started smiling and engaging in conversations and laughing with the guys. Work has suddenly become a lot more fun and I realize this is GALing...
We all have our ups and downs... hiding the downs has been a problem of mine on here. This is the one place we should feel free to "let it out". RAI pointed this out to me today, and it helped a lot.
M: 8 years, together 9 M: 41 W: 32 D 4, S 6 ILYBINILWY 2/10/15 2/14/15-2/22/15 Left home 4/5/15 Suspect A, Initiated Sandi's advice from WW thread 4/19/15 W asked for D
