Hey!!!! I didn't say she wasn't!!

So just thinking wording.

How about

Dear H,

That sounds sensible about the house, thank you for organising that.

I know we have discussed this before but its important you know that for me any settlement on the House will need to be part of a formal agreement on all the finances.

I don't mind how you want to take this forward as I'm confident we can work something out. Let me know your thoughts

Toots

Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress