Please just let her be. SPACE SPACE SPACE! When I left my first husband, all he did was pursue me and I told him just give me some space to breath. He didn't and I went thru with the divorce.
Now I am separated from my second husband all he want is space, space, space. It's hard but you have to do it. I am trying my best to give him his space.
Thank you Hope. I value your insight so much because you've been on the other side of the coin.
Did you see that I found she had set aside $3500 for a lawyer and filled out a divorce survival worksheet.
She told me that she is thinking of filling but says that she hasn't.
Said that she is being honest about thinking about giving it a chance and spending some time together.
This is probably my last chance so I cannot be my own worst enemy here.