Hi Toots. Just to echo twinmum. This is a tough one. Settle back and have a good think Let us all weigh in with our thoughts and listen to L but most of all let your head rule this one. Your heart is way to big for a decision like this. I also tend to agree that D is not the end. With your H being so confused it's hard to know when he will see sense again. My personal thoughts are your H will emerge from his fog one day but which day ?
Toots needs to do what's best for toots but again when it comes to money think hard
For the very first time I will disagree with Jim. ,you are already marvellous !!!
