I understand the fear of divorce but like Zew said, you need to let that go.
A non sugar coated point of view........ You are only his wife on paper. In his eyes you are no longer his wife so does a piece of paper define your life?
Dear H, The sale of the house is fine with me but only if it is part of a full financial settlement. I would prefer formal separation but if you prefer divorce that is fine with me. Just know that I will only have my lawyer file for separation, divorce paperwork is your responsibility if you choose that route.
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction