I text: "Oh no! I'm sorry you are dealing with this. You can always call if you want to talk about it."
Just a thought at what jumped out. Shes in an active A and divorcing you. Its one thing to be there and validate/be friendly as shes talking, another to tell her your ALWAYS there as a support if she wants it.
Goes in with being available to her also. You basically told her your there anytime she wants you to be.
Fogg, Right on point. No excuse there. Tried to be supportive but I agree that it comes across the wrong way.
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
