I still feel like when I read your texts to your W you are pursuing. As a W in an active affair I imagine it's a turn off. Right now she is cake eating ... Calling all the time, texting, etc.
Let her miss you some more. I really think you need to pull back. Stop being so available. You may think you might come off like a jerk but you can be NICE and unavailable.
T0, Thanks for the feedback! I value your perspective on so many levels.
If you get a moment, could you provide an example where you felt I was pursuing so that I could alter my approach going forward?
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
