And I think that's ok BEC, but just realize that insistence on time and forcing schedules may come across as trying to "prove" how good of a dad you are. And I'm pretty sure that won't have the impact you want. You'll have to decide for yourself, but I would think spending higher quality time is more important than higher quantity time. You might think of special outings or activities you can do some days and have them longer so you don't have to push for every single day.
Again, just my opinion, but I'm finding having days apart is actually helpful for me to GAL and to recharge.
