So, let her see your changes, not make promises, be clingy etc. She needs to SEE the new you. She doesn't need to be told about the new you. She doesn't want you to do everything for her, she needs to want to be with you again.
Baby steps. Don't blow it!
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015