I think being a great dad is super important. But being "on-call" and forcing the issue is not letting her have the space she needs. I know you've been emphatic about seeing the kids every day, but is that for you or are you trying to "prove" how good of a dad you can be?
I'm currently separated from my W and we are splitting the week 50-50. It gives us time alone with the kids and time to GAL while not needing to schedule time every day. I'm not saying it's the best arrangement, and I do miss my kids terribly on my "off" days. But getting that time for me to be able to move forward is so valuable too.


At BD - Me: 33 Her: 33; M: 10 T: 15; D: 6 and 3

BD: 3/25/15
S: 4/20/15
D: 11/9/15