I think being a great dad is super important. But being "on-call" and forcing the issue is not letting her have the space she needs. I know you've been emphatic about seeing the kids every day, but is that for you or are you trying to "prove" how good of a dad you can be? I'm currently separated from my W and we are splitting the week 50-50. It gives us time alone with the kids and time to GAL while not needing to schedule time every day. I'm not saying it's the best arrangement, and I do miss my kids terribly on my "off" days. But getting that time for me to be able to move forward is so valuable too.