I know that the moving out thing is pretty much unanimously agreed upon as a NO... make the party that wants out do it.
I see the logic in that, but in my heart and head I also feel like perhaps it would show repentance, that I do care enough about HER (as opposed to trying to hold on the "marriage") that I can give her the space she wants without totally disrupting HER life. As I said, I do feel VERY at fault as to what has happened.
When I say move out, I am not talking about permanently or even semi-permanently. Maybe just a month of staying with a friend or something. Give her a chance to miss me (which friends have recommended to me as well.)
What are your thoughts on that?
Me 37,W37 D8,D5 T20 years, M13 years BD-5/14 MC starts (continues)-9/14 EA discovered-10/14 Piecing(?)-11/14-5/14 "I just feel 'done'"-5/15 Trial S (I moved)-6/15/15
