OK. That makes sense. This space thing is difficult to understand. I don't get it either, but my W wants it, so, what have I got to lose by letting her have it? Well lots to lose, but nothing will improve if I don't - see the difference?

I'm not expert, and most of the guys on here will tell you they're muddling through, trying to work out what on earth is going on.

You will have ups and downs (in the same day, sometimes the same hour) and that's OK. Come on here, let people know, somebody will check in and have a look.

You can do this. Time, space, patience. Yup, it's hard, but we're all trying to manage this s***.

M 45 W 52
SD22 S9 D8
BD 6 April 2015
Not living together 4 Dec 2015