H texted me today...

He's had agents in this week. The house is ready to list if I'm ok with that. He quoted the asking price, which he's happy with (so am I.) He's tidying this weekend.

He hopes I'm well. He got a new job, starting in a few weeks. It's a crap job, but who cares - it's better than nothing.

I replied....I'm good thanks. Congrats on the job & thanks for sorting house stuff. The price sounds fine to me. Just let me know if I can help.

Now I'm just a bit concerned about our impasse. My L advises only to sell as part of settlement. H thinks we should D as part of that. D isn't what I want.

Concerned that if I push on financials it will lead to D. Concerned that he thinks half the house is 'my share' and will get away with that if he can.

Hmm....thoughts??


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus