Thank you, Sandi2 for all the support! I was only to give a quick overview of the principles of MWD because our session was cut short. I have been discussing my M with my IC as well as my anger, which i am continuing to work on. When I mentioned some of the principles, my IC was open to it, and I will be telling her more about it next week.
In regards to detaching, I believe that i do have a good handle on what to do, especially with W's recent actions. W has been more talkative lately, she has asked about my day, and she even told me to have a good day. She texts me throughout the day, although most of if is about S2 or the house, but its a start . W even suggested sleeping in the same room because our house is getting painted, but she ended up sleeping on the couch in the living room. I dont know if W's actions and words are something to get excited about, but its a small step forward. She is still full steam ahead about selling the house, and I have been trying really hard not to "drag" my feet like i did when i found out she wanted to sell. I don't know if W is happy to be moving on or she is happy that i am changing. Oh well, I have to keep reminding myself that this is for me and not for her.
I know my W knows that I'd rather stay with her, so I am not going to tell her again. She knows. I don't want to pursue!
Me-35 W-34 Married 6/2011 T-6 years S-2 BD-3/22/2015
. W even suggested sleeping in the same room because our house is getting painted, but she ended up sleeping on the couch in the living room. I dont know if W's actions and words are something to get excited about, but its a small step forward. She is still full steam ahead about selling the house, and I have been trying really hard not to "drag" my feet like i did when i found out she wanted to sell. I don't know if W is happy to be moving on or she is happy that i am changing. Oh well, I have to keep reminding myself that this is for me and not for her. 