Ripken - LRT with a WW and divorce filed #3

[Ripken8]

Thanks Defacto and Sandi! Here's my gameplan when I move out to test and see how it works - whatever it's called (NOT gray)

-Work on me and dig deep on the 5 points above

-GAL, rediscover what I enjoy, work out and meet new people

-Not intiate contact with ww and not respond immediately (if at all) when she does - I'm busy

-If I chose to interact with ww, be polite, positive and allow parts of me to show, even humor/jokes and general care for her well-being, where it makes sense. Tell me self it's ok to enjoy moments with ww and doesn't have to mean she's cake-eating or I'm backing off my boundaries. Don't have to be a cold hearted dick.

-Be an amazing father and continue to grow that relationship even further. When it comes to interaction and whether or not to with ww, if it's about the boys, that trumps everything.

No sure if this is LRT, Going Dark or whatever. But this seems to be my plan. Any other thoughts or suggestions?