2 years minimum - well that squarely places us in the self-focus zone doesn't it.
Thanks Cadet
^^ This. I'm a year into this from her perspective (her PA is only 15 days short of a year, not sure how long the EA went on before she moved up a gear). So where will I be in another year? I really don't know, but it won't be here.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.