Thanks Cadet- it surely does help and I greatly value your advice.
2 years minimum - well that squarely places us in the self-focus zone doesn't it.
I have read about affair busting - but apart from what you quoted it sensate seem to offer anything else. It is crazy affair but OM has a vested interest in maintaining relationship with a "citizen" for 2-3 years.
Do you have an opinion on what I asked about MIL in that same post?
Thanks Cadet
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015