Thanks Cadet- it surely does help and I greatly value your advice.

2 years minimum - well that squarely places us in the self-focus zone doesn't it.

I have read about affair busting - but apart from what you quoted it sensate seem to offer anything else. It is crazy affair but OM has a vested interest in maintaining relationship with a "citizen" for 2-3 years.

Do you have an opinion on what I asked about MIL in that same post?

Thanks Cadet


M: 6 T: 12
Kids: 2,4
BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015
EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015