Back off. Don't blow it. I think you are persuing. Buddy, this is hard, I don't deny it, but we're all in this together. Just leave her. Sending her schedules etc. is just another form of asking her/telling her what's going on. She needs to WANT to know.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015