That's a difficult one, just starting the process, as you know. At the minute, I don't want W - she's treating me so badly. What I want is W back as she was. Will she come back? I don't know. How long do you wait? What are we expecting to see; what are the signs? Just too many unknowns for us LBH's to ponder, so, that's where the rules come in, I suppose.
We can't change them, we can't control them. We have to do what's right for us.
I'm having a bit of a down afternoon. I know that W holds the 'kid card' right now, and I seem to be losing that battle. I've worked out my income and expenses and I'll really struggle to see them if W carries out her plan. I can't tell W as, in her current state, she won't care.
Sandi - thoughts for us Py and me?
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
