It's is detailed in there wonka, thanks. But in reading that it implies and says when you interact be positive and polite. I could never find going dark or dropping the rope in dr. So that why I thought going dark was you dropped off the face of the earth and are gone because you're so busy gal.
Also I swear Saudi or others have said you can't go dark when you live in the same house can only do lrt. Which would make sense if going dark was no contact. Also my last db coach meeting was about lrt and it included contact.
Sorry to make this seem more difficult that's why I'm confusing the two.
Rip, All the acronyms and strategies are confusing for me too. I think the key here is not to get too bogged down in the name of a particular strategy. Instead, focus on employing the strategy that seems to work best in your sitch at this moment and then be consistent. Over time, if it is helping you achieve your goals, keep doing it. If it is not, modify it. Only you know the precise nuances of your W and your relationship.
But please, take this time to focus on improving you. That will never be the wrong answer. Stay strong and focused! Only a few more days until you move out.
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
