Defacto - It's encouraging to see you make progress with the ups and downs and find time to grab a beer or two with a friend and enjoy time with your sons.
It is very tough not to mind read and struggle between having good conversations with the ww or shutting down completely. Your ww seems much more far along on her journey than mine.
Hopefully mine starts to take a similar path. The length of the journey is one of the hardest things for me to accept. You seem to be well aware of this!
M-33 W-33 S-11, S-8 M-11, T-14 BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18 I moved out 5/23