Originally Posted By: Kramer
Nope, no pursuit. I didn't contact her all day. She sent a few superficial texts to me this evening and I waited about an hour to respond. She just texted me again to tell me that I suck at texting because I take so long to respond. That is by design. I don't want to seem TOO available, and want her to wonder what I'm up to. Hopefully that's a good strategy.

Haha. I'm the same way about replying to STBX's texts. I think that's a good strategy. Don't want them to think we are sitting by our phone waiting for their breadcrumbs...even though we kind of are LOL. Just goes to show how much more work I need to do to detach. Keep up the good work, Kramer.


Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15