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Journaling:
STBX called last night to tell me she overslept so her parents were going to bring the kids over to my house. She's clearly still relying on her parents for basic things. I guess that's one of the perks of living with your parents when you're 30 years old. We will see how she handles the day to day stuff now that her parents left for a week long cruise this morning.
Later that night, she texted to see how the kids were doing. I responded with "Great!" She asked me to give them kisses from her. I didn't respond.
At 11:30pm she called but I let it ring.
This morning, she called after her work shift. We talked about the kids and joked about how S1 keeps putting his hand down the front of his diaper. Boys will be boys! She asked what we were going to do today and wished us a fun day. I began to say my goodbyes but STBX started to share a story from work. I listened and laughed with her a bit. Then, I wished her some rest and said goodbye.
Sorry, not much to report. Today is the first day of vacation so I'm looking forward to some time to just relax and spend with the kiddos. Tonight, the kids and I are sleeping over at my best friend's house. His wife offered to watch the kids while he and I grab a couple of beers. I'm sure we will end up spinning some records into the wee hours!
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15