Hey Arcola

Its sh1t and hurts like hell but believe me it does get a little easier as time passes on. I'm 4 months further and feel so much better than I did in those first few weeks.
Best advice ever is just to let them go. They want greener grass? let them have it. Move on and look forward to a new part of your life.
I wouldn't hold onto what Starsky is saying but he's right. Seen it numerous times on here and loads of other sites. When they realise you've gone for good they often come back round to wanting the marriage back. I've seen it with a couple of my friends. By that point they had well and truly moved on themselves and weren't interested. don't hold onto to hope. It just holds you back.
Good luck with you future and with you kids.


Me:40 W:35
D:8
T:13 M:10
WAW: 7/14
PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months
Moved out and moved on