Thanks V and Pink. Yes I agree our journey isn't over and that H still seems somewhat conflicted. TBH, I still expect D papers may arrive in the mail box. Equally nothing may happen. I read some of the MLC welcome threads last night, and some stuff in those resonated with me.

One of them was about MLCers keeping things we give them. A tiny strand of a link to us which they don't want to let go of. My H has kept one or two things from me, which surprised me as I have been erased in other ways. Another was the big difference between a WAS and a MLCer. WAS check out of the M and resolutely move for D. The big trademark of MLCers is confusion. I feel more and more that my H may be in MLC. Pink, you may find it useful to read those threads too maybe...I also saw an ebook called detach and survive which people seemed to rate well. I may get that one too..

As for me, I'm doing pretty well. I worked yesterday and I'm at the bookstore this morning, then having coffee with a lady from my social group this pm....Take care lovely DBers xxxx


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus