I agree with the OP stuff - how do you ever overcome that?? But fact is many people do. I'm not saying it's easy, but it's possible. It doesn't feel possible now, but with a truly contrite S keen to reconcile, that may be a different story.

Take care RD xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus