This makes sense. It doesn't all apply to me though. My W was oblivious to any porn i watched and it didn't impact our sex life. It was really only ever a substitute for me as our sex life was virtually non-existent. (probably about 100 times in 12 years!!!)

So maybe I (also) have a problem with how am I going to deal with a normal sex life? I dont know, but it is so far away from me that I honestly dont think about it.

ergggggh - it just burns me up that the WAWs don't have to deal with any of this. Even the sex life thing, she is already on that horse. Sure she "might" have to deal with it sooner or later, but she "might not" either. Not that it matters, and not that it makes it any less annoying. And again, "I" have to regroup and calm myself, blah blah, and the road continues - i'm just tired. Time to beach it for me.


M: 6 T: 12
Kids: 2,4
BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015
EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015