Originally Posted By: Z
Py and all- I'm actually doing really well in terms of how I'm feeling about myself, and my life. It DEFINITELY helps to talk about it. I appreciate all of you giving me your feedback. I raised my hand and asked because I want to keep moving the right direction.


glad to hear it smile

I'm off on a new thread. A new period in my journey as well.

Originally Posted By: Z
What I've been doing the last few weeks is really exploring the topics of sex in relationships, how men recover from long porn use, etc.


This will be something I will have to grapple with later. I have been going to look at the "sex starved M" but this would be stupid, ATM I am still dealing with not having a M. My M and R was seriously sex-starved. In retrospect I am surprised things held together, but then this just makes me sad. The reason it did was that we were such good friends (earlier on).

I know how irrelevant this is but I just have to get it off my chest. I think about how she is dealing with intimacy now with OM. She has made progress in this respect, I doubt she has changed her spots, maybe she has and I just missed out frown. Maybe it was just me, and as I have said before that the M was a mistake in the first place because this was always the case, apart from her leaving a few years in because she felt I was like her "brother".


M: 6 T: 12
Kids: 2,4
BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015
EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015