Py and all- I'm actually doing really well in terms of how I'm feeling about myself, and my life. It DEFINITELY helps to talk about it. I appreciate all of you giving me your feedback. I raised my hand and asked because I want to keep moving the right direction.
glad to hear it
I'm off on a new thread. A new period in my journey as well.
Originally Posted By: Z
What I've been doing the last few weeks is really exploring the topics of sex in relationships, how men recover from long porn use, etc.
This will be something I will have to grapple with later. I have been going to look at the "sex starved M" but this would be stupid, ATM I am still dealing with not having a M. My M and R was seriously sex-starved. In retrospect I am surprised things held together, but then this just makes me sad. The reason it did was that we were such good friends (earlier on).
I know how irrelevant this is but I just have to get it off my chest. I think about how she is dealing with intimacy now with OM. She has made progress in this respect, I doubt she has changed her spots, maybe she has and I just missed out . Maybe it was just me, and as I have said before that the M was a mistake in the first place because this was always the case, apart from her leaving a few years in because she felt I was like her "brother".
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015