Well, I have a lot of postings out there. To catch you up super-fast, my W has MS and left while I was away for a weekend visiting my S at college. We had an argument, a few nights before I left. When I came home, she was gone (we only have 1 car). I eventually found out she filed for D the next day. Her main issue with me was that I had become "smothering." She is living 3 1/2 hrs away with her Mom/Stepdad.
I believe in the last thread, mahhhty asked me what behaviors of mine led to this and what I was doing to change them.
Of course, like almost all WAS' she has re-written our history.
Really trying harder than ever to GAL seems to have helped my attitude, confidence and helps me detach.
I am feeling as good as I possibly could today, considering the circumstances.
You're welcome, Smothy, I think there is always hope.
I'll check in with you by tomorrow for sure!
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
