The END Hopefully they live happily ever after....

[DFE]

Anybody else going through a similar thing or have read on the site about a similar situation?

So I have done a lot of work and forgave him. I let go of the anger and understand why we are here. I think that's been dangerous though. I have been hanging out with him and my kids more. He even spent the night twice (on the couch). One of the nights he asked if we could watch a movie.

Twice now he has said over text is this a date? Or something like this isn't a date or is it?

He's text me a few times now saying Good Morning beautiful. And has said I am a pretty devil in a flirty way. I am now getting confused again. I am enjoying spending more time with my kids. I like being friends with him more than I like fighting with him. He will always have a place in my heart and I know where I could have done different. In a way I am exploring where this goes too but I don't know what he is doing.

He seems like he is testing us out to see if we can get along but I don't want to let him cake eat. Is that what this is? He is very helpful to me around the house and with the kids. Always there if I need something and I know in my heart that he loves me. Strange I know. He invites me to dinner with him and the kids. Even BBQ'd at my house the other day and made us dinner.

I just don't know what to do. I feel like he is having second thoughts about the divorce but I want him to know that this wasn't a joke. You don't get the best parts of being a family without any of the hard parts. This could also be a way for us to BOTH explore the possibility of a new relationship between us. NEW because the old one is dead.

Thoughts? I just need advice. I thought once we were divorced this merry go round would stop but it seems we are back on going around and around.