Hi Pink. I could never be upset with you. If we had met 25 years ago I would have been chasing you all over for a date. You are a friend and friends tell it how it is to each other I value your advice and look forward to when your post.
W is a fantastic lady. Kind , caring , beautiful and great fun. ( who does that remind you of ? ) She has made choices for herself and if I'm truthfully I think she went becaus she couldn't handle family life and thought she wanted something else
The road home is not smooth and since the day she left I took over everything and it truly shocked her I always worked hard and looking after the bouse re maintenance and cars, gardening etc but I never helped enough around the house re day to day. Once she left I did everything and asked for no help Even when things got tough at work, I sorted everything Kids all turned to me and want nothing to do with W once she's out of family home Even today W was saying that she feels she is no longer needed as I do everything
Pink I did all this because W rejected me and I deal with this by just taking over and letting W do her own thing Part of the reason I gave up on R recently is because W is coming forward a lot but I know I could not deal with OM if she came home
