I also wonder why I worry so much all the time. I get that anxiety and worry do serve a purpose. Were it not for these, I would never have studied for exams or been prepared for anything. They can be great motivators. The problems is that I (and perhaps you) tend take it to the extreme and paint such a bleak picture. It is hard to enjoy life and be in the moment when we do this.
Thank you for sharing in my joy. I really do wish my fellow DBers could have been present to share in the celebration. You are such an awesome bunch and heck, we could all use a little celebration!
Let's see if I can capitalize on the momentum.
BTW, for the record, it may not be a popular opinion and a lot of folks on your thread disagree, but I do not think you need to confront your H. I agree that in the long run you will not feel better AND it hinders the detachment process. He will be evasive and you will not get the answers you want anyway. I would not expect him to suddenly break down and confess. Confrontation is only when you can do something productive with the information. Am I wrong?
