In my opinion I can read in RDs posts that he has been supportive in a material way more then in a emotional way. RD just said that he did not make the way back home very smooth. RD also said that his W probably knows that the R, M is over and that RD does not want to reconcile..
So, as much as he is all ears to hear her laments and all eyes to see her crying, it is not being there for her.
And besides, I agree with Vanilla, I believe from what RD writes here, that there is some kind of addiction, dependency in the mix. I think the drugs may be a big play in this whole depression scenario, and there may be some alcohol too. I did not do drugs, but I got drunk quite a few times after BD and my H was around to help me.
But all this is only my opinion and I am not vet or an expert in R, if so my M would be all spring flowers now. I just think in RD situation things have been a little different then the usual jerk like my H.
So RD, please, don't be mad with me. I really would like you to be happy and your family too. Sometimes love will do a better job then any other method we may try. Just saying.
Now, if you want some other kind of comments because you think that W does not deserve all your caring, then start writing about who she really is. If there is nothing more to it, I would say compassion would be my go.
