Yeah I need to get there. I am working on it but it is hard when he comes over and is actually speaking to me and telling me things that he is doing. I feel I still will ask questions like what are you going to do tonight, or what are you having for dinner? I think because I ask my friends that too. Should I not ask him that stuff? probably not since I feel like that isn't really detaching myself.
I get sucked into the conversation and then find myself trying to make more. Something to work on regarding my goal of not feeling like I have to talk.
